I am so happy. I just ran into a woman I used to work with — she was among the best coworkers I’ve ever had — and she said to me “Something’s diff… oh! That’s what’s different? You look great! How long has this been?” I told her it had been a year. “Wow. . . that long? I never noticed… but you look great! Congratulations!”

It’s the first time someone’s noticed and said anything. Positive or negative.